Out of Time couple retreat 3 days : Intimacy beyond words, three days for the essentials.

Out of Time - Deep connection in the darkness

A 3-day retreat for couples who want to reconnect in an extraordinary setting, including 36 hours in complete darkness with optional InspirAreSoulTechnology coaching.

Freed from visual stimuli and everyday distractions, you are invited to meet each other in a new way - through presence, mindful touch, shared silence and deep listening.
Darkness is not a lack, but a gift: it activates your other senses and creates space for the essence of connection.

The retreat begins with optional individual sessions upon arrival to clear personal issues or dynamics. These sessions allow for emotional clarity and open the space for a new encounter.
This is followed by a 36-hour journey into the darkness - a protected, silent and sacred space where you meet without pressure and where closeness and inner contact are allowed to emerge naturally.

Each couple has their own bed and retreat. There is a shared bathroom.
You will receive two to three meals a day.

Encounters are conscious, voluntary and respectful - with clear boundaries and an introductory ritual.

This retreat is not a new sexual experience, but an encounter and appreciation of presence.
What emerges from this space is yours: Intimacy, clarity, emotion, love, deep connection - and, if it's right for both of you, sexuality too.

The retreat ends with a gentle return to the light and a closing circle to integrate the experience.

🌀 Coaching support: InspirAreSoulTechnology sessions with Alexandre or Mela (optional and recommended)

Before going into the darkness, each partner is invited to receive a 1:1 session with InspirAre Soul Technology. These one-on-one sessions create space to explore unresolved emotional patterns that often silently and unconsciously influence the relationship.
The sessions are based on inner child work, family constellations, regression and somatic awareness. They help to clear emotional baggage that we may be unconsciously projecting onto our partner.

🪶 When both partners each receive a session (one after the other), a space is created for deeper connection in the darkness - free from old entanglements and unspoken expectations.

Benefits of the sessions:
- You take responsibility for your own emotional field - and free your partner from it.
- You gain insight into unconscious protective patterns, wounds or emotional blockages.
- You create an inner foundation for real connection in the here and now.
- You restore emotional security - the basis for true intimacy.

This preparation enables couples to enter the darkness not as wounded children in reaction mode, but as conscious adults - able to see, feel and hold each other with an open heart.

The accompaniment MELA and ALEXANDRE
We have been accompanying people in the darkness for many years - in long retreats, in silent processes, in moments of deepest self-knowledge.
What guides us is not just method, but a deep trust in the inner path of each individual. For over five years, we have regularly opened up spaces for people who are ready to meet themselves.
Our aim is to provide a protected framework in which you feel safe and held - free to open up, feel, remember and change.
The darkness itself became our teacher:
It showed us how important it is to meet people where they really are. With empathy, clarity and a safe, energetically supported space, we accompany you - not over you, but by your side.
Our diverse training in personal development and therapy flows into our work - not as a technique, but as a lived experience:
Art Therapy, Family Constellations, Voice Dialogue, Nonviolent Communication and Tasso Transpersonal Regression Therapy (TRT).
What we bring is a space of presence, experience and compassion - so that you can meet your innermost self at your own pace.

✨ This retreat is for you -
- 💔 if you have grown apart and want to reconnect
- 🤍 if you long for intimacy that goes beyond words
- 👁️‍🗨️ if you are curious to meet the being behind the person you love
- 🔥 if you want to give the essence of your relationship space and radiance again

Welcome to our ecological oasis of peace! Our newly built small apartment, surrounded by old trees, offers a harmonious ambience. The clay plaster and the wall heating create an optimal room climate for relaxation and inner work.
Our smoke-free and artistically designed circus wagon meets the highest building biology standards.
Thanks to modern technology, it remains pleasantly cool in summer and warm and dry in winter.

During the retreat, the food is carefully put together. At lunchtime, a balanced, organic vegetarian or vegan meal rich in raw vegetables is provided. The food is brought in. Breakfast is arranged independently as a buffet and includes a selection of fruit and muesli. The water, which is available throughout the day, is filtered by a Bestwater system to ensure the highest quality. Tea is also available at all times to make your stay a pleasant one.

Program schedule - "Out of Time" couples retreat (3 days, 2 nights)
📍Location:
Inspirare Retreat Center, Stuckenborstel

🕰️
Day 1 - Arrival & opening
From 14:00
Individual arrival & check-in

Welcome round & introduction

Time for you as a couple to arrive

Individual sessions (optional):

→ 90 minutes InspirAreSoulTechnology coaching per person

Evening:

- Yin yoga & inner child work in the geodesic dome in the garden
- Dinner in the evening

Gentle attunement to the darkness

🌑 Day 2 - The shared darkness

24 hours in the dark room
Retreat into the darkness (from the night of the previous day)
Time in absolute silence and closeness for the two of you. live according to your needs. Celebrate the relationship. Cultivate love.

Meals are brought silently into the dark. Let your senses dangle.

🌅 Day 3 - Return & integration

Morning light & encounter
Return from the darkness in the morning

Breakfast

Time to integrate as a couple (walk, journaling, rest).

Final round & shared conversation (moderated)

Lunch

Departure around 14:00

🍽️ Catering
Two wholesome, vegetarian meals daily

Silent care in the dark

Water, tea & snacks freely available

Arrival at the Inspirare Retreat Center

Location: Mühlenstraße 22, 27367 Stuckenborstel (Flecken Sottrum)
Region: Northern Germany - approx. 30 minutes from Bremen

Our retreat center is nestled in the peaceful northern German countryside - easily accessible, yet surrounded by nature. There are several ways you can find us:

🛣 By car

The most convenient way to get to us is by car.
We have free parking spaces directly on the premises. This means you can easily transport your luggage and arrive or depart flexibly. Getting here is easy - we are located approx:
- 10 minutes from the A1 highway
- 35 minutes from the center of Bremen

🚆 By train

If you are traveling by train, we recommend the following destination station
Ottersberg (Han).
There is a direct regional train from Bremen main station to Ottersberg - the journey takes approx. 20 minutes.
We will be happy to pick you up there - please let us know in good time.

✈️ By plane

The nearest airport is Bremen (BRE).
From there you have two options:
- By train: From the airport, take the streetcar (approx. 15 minutes) to Bremen main station → then continue by train (20 minutes) to Ottersberg (Han).
- By shuttle: On request, we can organize a pick-up service directly from the airport (for an extra charge).