Out of Time – Deep Connection in the Dark
A 3-day retreat for couples who want to reconnect in an extraordinary setting, including 36 hours in complete darkness with optional InspirAreSoulTechnology coaching.
Freed from visual stimuli and everyday distractions, you are invited to connect in new ways—through presence, mindful touch, shared silence, and deep listening.
Darkness is not a lack, but a gift: it activates your other senses and creates space for the essence of connection.
The retreat begins with optional one-on-one sessions upon arrival to address personal issues or dynamics. These sessions foster emotional clarity and open the space for a new encounter.
This is followed by a 36-hour journey into darkness—a safe, quiet, and sacred space where you can connect without pressure, allowing closeness and inner connection to arise naturally.
Each couple has their own bed and their own private retreat space. There is a shared bathroom.
You’ll be provided with two to three meals a day.
Encounters take place consciously, voluntarily, and respectfully—with clear boundaries and an introductory ritual.
This retreat is not a new sexual experience, but rather an encounter and appreciation of the present moment.
What emerges from this space belongs to you: intimacy, clarity, emotion, love, deep connection—and, if it feels right for both of you, sexuality as well.
The retreat ends with a gentle return to the light and a closing circle to integrate the experience.
🌀 Coaching support: InspirAreSoulTechnology sessions with Alexandre or Mela (optional and recommended)
Before you enter the darkness, each partner is invited to receive a one-on-one session using InspirAreSoulTechnology. These individual sessions create space to explore unresolved emotional patterns that often silently and unconsciously influence the relationship.
The sessions are based on Inner Child work, family constellations, regression, and somatic awareness. They help clear emotional burdens that we may unconsciously project onto our partner.
🪶 When both partners each receive a session (one after the other), a space for deeper connection emerges in the darkness—free from old entanglements and unspoken expectations.
Benefits of the sessions:
• You take responsibility for your own emotional field—and free your partner from it.
• You gain insight into unconscious defense mechanisms, wounds, or emotional blockages.
• You create an inner foundation for genuine connection in the here and now.
• You restore emotional safety—the foundation for true intimacy.
This preparation enables couples to enter the darkness not as wounded children in reaction mode, but as conscious adults—capable of seeing, feeling, and holding one another with open hearts.
Guidance from MELA and ALEXANDRE
For many years, we have been guiding people through the darkness—in long retreats, in quiet processes, and in moments of deepest self-awareness.
What guides us is not just a method, but a deep trust in each individual’s inner path. For over five years, we have regularly created spaces for people who are ready to encounter themselves.
Our aim is to maintain a safe space where you feel secure and supported—free to open up, to feel, to remember, and to transform.
Darkness itself has become our teacher:
It has shown us how important it is to meet people where they truly are. With empathy, clarity, and a safe, energetically supported space, we accompany you—not by stepping over you, but by your side.
Our diverse training in personal development and therapy flows into our work—not as a technique, but as lived experience:
art therapy, family constellations, Voice Dialogue, Nonviolent Communication, and Tasso Transpersonal Regression Therapy (TRT).
What we bring is a space of presence, experience, and compassion—so you can connect with your innermost self, entirely at your own pace.
✨ This retreat is for you—
– 💔 if you’ve drifted apart and want to reconnect
– 🤍 if you long for intimacy that goes beyond words
– 👁️🗨️ if you’re curious to encounter the essence behind the person you love
– 🔥 if you want to give the core essence of your relationship space and radiance once again
